So you know what kind of things run through your mind. Dark fantasies, most lovers would cringe at. You crave your masochism like no other. Maybe you jsut need someone understanding, benevolent, caring? Well if you haven’t met Ms. Kandali then you’re not living yet. She is a memeber of The Erotic Bloggers group here on NiteFlirt. http://www.niteflirt.com/details/Kandali/Other/8542325
I interviewed Ms. Kandali tonight. Here is the interview:
Q: So what are your favorite subjects to talk about with people?
A: Fav subjects would have to be Everything under the sun! I love everything from talking about the days events just as much as I love talking about how a tongue feels against sensetive flesh.
Q: What are your taboos?
A: Anything underage, and I don’t do pee, poo or vomit.
Q: What’s your favorite BDSM activity?
A: My flogger and my paddle are both close and dear friends of mine. Both carry a soft quality to them, but can leave a nice red mark that I love feeling the heat radiate off of. I also enjoy introducing those new to BDSM the fine art of dominance and submission.
Q: What’s your darkest fantasy?
A: The one thing I have always wanted to try is play piercing. I think for both the piercer and piercing that the expirence would be totally mind blowing with pleasure. It all stems from a Fetish art book I saw once. The model on the cover had two rows of rings down her back and was laced like a corset. I was hooked from then on with wanting to try it.
Q: What is your sexual orientation?
A: Bi-sexual. And I was bi before it was trendy!
Q: What do you like about men?
A: I love the way their bodies and minds react to just the spoken word.
Q: What do you like about women?
A: I love our softness and how the smallest thing can generate a reaction.
Q: Are you ever submissive?
A: Never! I’m a female. I was raised to be a strong woman that never took crap from a guy. I bow or kneel to no one.
Q: What’s your favorite fantasy ever told to you by a man?
A: Vanilla: having sex out in the country in the middle of a field on a summer night. More exciting: Being blindfolded, restrained and gagged and wanting me to take his anal virginity.
Q: What’s your favorite fantasy told to you by a woman?
A: Oh that’s a good one. The best one ever was a woman who wanted to bed tied down to a bar stool, blindfolded and gang banged.
Q: What’s the best thing a submissive has ever done for you?
A: That’s simple. Love, respected and obeyed our positions.
Q: What kind of long term training programs do you have in place for submissives?
A: My longest term submissive has been around for 10 years now. Yes.. 10 years. He’s long distance but he’s required to keep a daily journal, with photos. He is required to contact me twice a day via phone and works on a schedule I gave him. Punishment is a bitch. Poor thing went 3 months without an orgasm for misbehaving and being cocky with me. Each submissive is different and each long term plan is tailored to that submissive.
Q: What do you think of male chastity devices?
A: Ya know. I once uded to work in a retail shop that sold Fetish gear. My favorite thing to sell was the CB2000. Wonderful little tooth right there. It’s effective as well as easy to keep clean. I recommend them for all dominant women.
Q: What other careers have you had besides phone sex?
A: Well my most successful career is handmade jewelry. Which I still do. And honestly is the primary reason I got into phone sex. I need a way to pay for expensive gemstones and precious metals.Beyond that, I was an internet DJ for 4 years. I also worked a variety of jobs when I was much younger, food serive, retail, clerical. The normal stuff.
Q: What made you decide that phone sex was the career for you?
A: After 4 years of people telling me I had the voice for phone sex… I figured what the hell. Let’s try it! Not to mention, I like sex a lot. I love it spoke and written.
Q: What are the three most important things to you in forming a good connection with potential clients?
A: Communication on both ends, honesty, and open minds. I’m not going to be able to give a guy what he wants unless he’s truthful and can tell me the things he is looking for as well as be open to suggestions to make his experience better.
Q: In this business we are not for everyone, though it’s rare, there are men we don’t click with. How do you feel about referring to other ops in this scenario?
A: Of course I would refer a customer to another op if it wasn’t working out. I want him to enjoy himself, if I am not cutting it well maybe another girl can.
Q: Do you have any promotions currently for your new customers?
A: Please e-mail me for current promotions or specials. This might be your lucky week 
Thank you for the interview Ms. Kandali! Now let’s get those boys calling!
